Tuesday, January 3, 2017

How to win friends and influence people-review

There are certain prerequisite for success .Apart from Talent,discipline and hardwork one key aspect is human relationships.And in this book "How to win friends and influence people" Dale Carnegie unleashes strategies to learn and imbibe the quality of developing Human relations

This book has been lauded and appreciated by greats like 'Warren Buffet"

Here are the principles covered in the book

Fundamental techniques in handling people
1.Don't criticise,condemn or complain

2.Give honest and sincere appreciation

3.Arouse in the other person an eager    

Six ways to make people like you
1.Become genuinely interested in other people


3.Remember that a person's name is to the person the sweetest and most important sound in any language

4.Be a good listener.Encourage others to talk about themselves

5.Talk in terms of other person's interest

6.Make other person feel important-and do it sincerely

How to win people to your way of thinking

1.The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it

2.Show respect for the other person's opinion's.Never say "you are wrong"

3.If you are wrong admit it quickly and emphatically

4.Begin in a friendly way

5.Get the other person saying 'yes,yes," immediately

6.Let the other person do a great deal of talking

7.Let the other person feel idea is his/hers

8.Try honestly to see things from other person's perspective

9.Be sympathetic with other person's ideas and desires

10.Appeal to nobler motives

11.Dramatise your ideas

12.Throw down a challenge

Be a leader:How to change people without giving offence or arousing resentment

1.Begin with praise and honest appreciation

2.Call attention to people's mistake indirectly

3.Talk about your own mistakes before criticising others

4.Ask questions instead of giving direct orders

5.Let other person save face

6.Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement.Be 'hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise'

7.Give the other person a fine reputation to live up

8.Use encouragement.Make the fault seem easy to correct

9.Make other person Happy about doing the thing you suggest

Do read the book and leave your comments

Monday, December 19, 2016

Mind and you

My mind has limited focus capabilities
How do I get stuff done
When you have captivated
All my focus

Eyes and dreams

She was silent
Yet her eyes were spinning
A beautiful story

Her eyes were staring mine
It looked so
Yet her eye's were weaving
Some beautiful dreams

I lay there hoping
To play my role
In manifestation of those dreams
If not atleast I pray God
Not to fiddle with those
Tender beautiful dreams

Friday, December 9, 2016


I was like the mud,
Just lying around scattered,
Until you touched me like the rain,
To turn me into "Petrichor"

P.S. Petrichor is the smell you get when rain touches the ground.

Tuesday, December 6, 2016

Chasing gals

If you feel chasing gals is difficult try dreams

Flamboyant trip

The lady herself is in trip
Yet she trips this sober with her
Impeccable flamboyance

Tuesday, November 29, 2016

Nostalgic ride

She takes the drivers seat
Driving me through the lanes of Nostalgia
Only to realize later
That it was just Nostalgia